Important Life Lessons

Monday, the students had a chance to try last week's hands-on problem a second time.   We usually do not have time to do this, but I wanted the students to recognize that they learn from their experiences and have the ability to improve with practice.  You would think they would know this and, in most situations, they do but most gifted children are not used to struggling or failing at a task.  When they face a new and very challenging problem they can't master on the first or second try, they want to quit.  They appear to only want to do tasks or activities where they are successful.  In reality, they are doubting their ability to overcome the obstacles.  They are afraid they can't or won't be successful.  They just haven't had enough experience with struggling, feeling frustrated and failing. This is where I see our children as "developmentally delayed." They are learning (hopefully) a crucial lesson other children learn between the ages of 3-5 years old.

For bright children, learning to be a "risk taker" and learning perseverance takes more than just practice.  They also need encouragement and support as they build their confidence and recognize they can find success on a task at which they once failed.  For most students, they need an opportunity to build success with increasingly more complicated challenges.  In the child's eyes, the more important the task- the more difficult it will be for him or her to accept the learning curve necessary for mastery.

In the computer lab, the boys and girls reviewed how to locate a document in their SAGE shared drive file.  They also reviewed how to format text for size, style, color, bold, Italics, underlining and to justify their text left, right and center within a  Microsoft Word document.  

This week, they learned to open Microsoft Power Point Presentation, save it in their SAGE- shared drive file, and to insert and move a text box. We also discussed the differences and similarities in the two programs.

After recess and lunch, the students had their second Spanish Lesson with Señora Gates.  They practiced greetings, introductions and discussed how the Spanish language uses masculine and feminine form nouns.

In the afternoon, the students worked at their individual Exploratory centers.  Ask your child about his/her progress.

Last week, as a part of our Affective Studies unit, we read The Popcorn Dragon, by Jane Thayer.  
Dexter was ordinarily a well-behaved young dragon.  You could hardly blame him for showing off when he suddenly found that he could make clouds of smoke. The temptation is irresistible, but Dexter's bragging quickly becomes a problem.  First he watches his own reflection in the river in order to admire the smoke. Then he puffs it in the faces of his friends: the zebra, the giraffe, and the elephant. He even blows smoke rings around his own tail to prove how clever he is.

Soon Dexter has no friends left. He is a very lonely dragon indeed, until quite by accident he discovers a way his talent can be used to win back his playmates.

We had a great class discussion about bragging and how it is perceived by others.  Then a few students acted out a situation where they were bragging in front of their peers.  We discussed why we might want to share our accomplishments and the difference between bragging and showing our pride.  The students wrote about their feels and observations as the group witnessing our actors bragging.

This week, we discussed:

Pride” comes with an extra responsibility-

You need to think about the feelings of others.

When you accomplish something and you want to tell others about it, consider “why” you want to share it, -especially with people beyond your immediate family.

•Is it to get others to pay more attention to you?

•Or do you honestly just want to share the news?

•Is the person you are telling someone you are sure will share your pride?

The students then made a list of the people that care about them and would be interested in celebrating their accomplishments with them.  This is another important lesson that can be difficult for young children to learn, but with support and practice, they will get there.

Have a great weekend!

Strengthening Our Research Skills and Challenging Our Creativity

The past two weeks we have really focused on our research skills.  The students worked on their ABC order skills to better prepare them for locating information in the index of reference books.  Once they showed me they could alphabetize to the fourth letter, I knew they were ready.

We looked at the organization and arrangement of traditional encyclopedias.  We discussed how to use guide words, the table of contents and the index.  We also discussed how captions, headings, subheadings, key words, charts and images can help us locate specific information in an article.  The students then practiced locating different topics in the World Book Encyclopedia.

I also introduced the students to using a traditional US and world atlas.  After learning the parts of a grid and how to locate a point by its coordinates, the students practiced their skills.  They located a given city in the index, recorded the page number and coordinates and then found the city on the map.  Understanding how to use a traditional map helps students understand how a GPS system also finds a specific location.

In the computer lab, the students are learning to open a new Microsoft Word document.  They have learned to save their document in their SAGE shared drive file.  This week the students learned to format their font for bold, Italics, underline, size, color and style.  In the weeks ahead, they will learn more about Microsoft Word and Power Point.

After lunch, the students had their first Spanish lesson with Senora Gates.  Each child had an opportunity to select a Spanish name.  Today they practiced greetings and how to introduce themselves.  We will have a 30 minute Spanish lesson each week.

We have also been exploring our creativity, flexibility of thought and ability to handle stress and frustration.  To do this, we completed our first "hands-on" problem solving challenge. Using only one pair scissors, two paper clips, a 9 x 12 inch sheet of paper, two drinking straws, and three folder labels the students had to create the tallest, free standing structure possible.  

They began with five minutes to brainstorm designs for their tower on their planning form.  They were then given twenty minutes to actually construct their tower.  It is fun to see the room go completely silent as each student's brain is fully engaged in the task. The students used a variety of designs for their towers.  Some were successful, while others struggled to overcome design obstacles.  They ended the task by evaluating their designs, construction and finished structure on their hands-on planning form.

To be successful, students must be fluent, flexible thinkers.  They need a steady stream of ideas and they must be able to adapt and change direction or strategy as new problems arise.  These tasks develop the skills needed to solve real world problems and provide wonderful opportunities for affective conversations.  We discussed how individuals handle frustration and challenge, why some students quit and others persevere and how their classmates that struggle academically might feel each day.  For some it is the "Ah Ha!" moment that enables them to empathize with their peers and avoid hurtful bragging.  Having said that, it takes a great deal of maturity and wisdom for an individual to celebrate their academic success in a way that does not make someone else feel less and so, the conversation continues...

Next "B" day, the students will try this same exercise again.  This will give them an opportunity to piggy-back on ideas they saw as they redesign and improve on their original structures.  Ask your child to share their "hands-on" design form with you and tell you about their structure and their challenges.